msde cant remotely connect with enterprise manager

if your having problem connecting to a remote msde 2000 with enterprise manager, you need to do this.

Execute this program
C:\Program Files\Microsoft SQL Server\80\Tools\Binn\SVRNETCN.exe
and enable tcpip

now you can connect with windows authentication.
If you want mixed mode authentication, do this
osql -U sa
and type
sp_password null, 'mynewpassword', 'sa'

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